who the hell says “swear words”

vaspim:

fuhrerkingsadley:

vaspim:

fuhrerkingsadley replied to your post: fuhrerkingsadley replied your post Im tired of…

it happens with slang all the time, you tell a girl shes bad, it means she looks good as hell. But fine look at the word cunt. People use it as a huge compliment now. Girl thats CUNT YASSS!! like, by NOT taking it back you give it those who hate

Yeah but its different tho.. How you gonna compare bad to a word as harsh as that word? Like even saying it aloud feels so hateful man, and I dont know ANYONE using the word cunt as a compliment dude… Cunt is JUST as bad. Youre using a slang variant of a girl’s private part as a way to express urself? I dunno… Like I see what ur saying but I respectfully disagree. Im hoping maybe some day you come to this side and realize sometimes words have diff meaning to diff people and I rather just go on the safe side and not use em. The English language has plenty of other options.. Just my 2c tho =)

Nah man. Words is words. Its people who give them power. People can just as easily take away that power. Cunt today is a TOTALLY different word that it was. I know more people who know it as a compliment than as a bad word and i think thats a beautiful thing. You can’t take the hate out of the world but you have the power to take the hate out of certain words. No offense but I don’t think you’re very well connected with the gay community if you dont know ANYONE using the word cunt as a compliment lmaoooo thats like…. THE WORD. I guess being gay in middle america is completely different from being gay and gay culture in a big city. You see so much more hate and are affected by things soooo differently. Gay culture in NYC or one of the big gay cities is nothing like being gay or non straight anywhere else in America. You have to immerse yourself into the ACTUAL culture to properly understand. Its much more to it than even just being gay. You could be gay your whole life and not understand gay culture at all. Not know the history or the struggle and never fully understand what it is. One day when you fully have immersed yourself in the culture, been to a few balls, have experienced the urban gay culture and inner city gay culture MAYBE youll understand a bit more. Not trying to make you agree with me but maybe understand more.

Bro “words is words” is like the most dismissive thing u could say though. Thats the equivalent of “its not a big deal” no it IS a big deal to some people and thats why I refuse to use the word - even if I may feel the same towards you, like I see what ur saying… It shouldnt affect people, but it DOES so I think its a personal and mutual responsibility to respect the wishes of others to avoid the risk of triggering or offending someone. You know more than me though because Im not well versed within the gay community, so I’ll def give u that. But then to say cunt is a different word… Maybe in your world view and culture but not everyone is as liberal and open minded as you in that sense, do u understand? Like my dad and people in this area dont know that. A lot of other people dont too. Idc how reinvented that word is, Im not using it cos its just bad taste IMO but I digress. Thanks for the discussion tho Remy

“Cunt today is a TOTALLY different word that it was. I know more people who know it as a compliment than as a bad word and i think thats a beautiful thing.”

this person is so utterly full of shit i didn’t even bother to read past that part. 

i was at a show and some white girl kept swinging her head and hitting me with her gross limp hair because she thought it was cute to act really wasted and invade everyone’s personal space but i swear let me hit you with my hair you’ll wake up in 2175 and everyone you’ve ever known will be dead

if you blame me for doing something i definitely didn’t do i will become the creature civilizations have feared since the beginning of time - coming out of the damn ocean and taking out everything and everyone, marking the beginning of the apocalypse.